Style · September 3, 2018

First Day Back At School

The one thing about being behind with blog post scheduling, means that I’ve been writing things on the day they’ll go up on the blog, and kind of feels like stripping it back to what I used to do when I wrote a blog post- something more stripped back and (pardon the phrase), from the heart.

Sitting down to write this post this morning, I was close to having an extensive natter about white jeans, the colour orange and new season styling- but rather than that, I thought I’d have a chat about the new term feeling I know I, and so many of us have been feeling as the beginning of September has rolled around. I did a little Instagram this morning about it, but there’s something about today that almost felt like the first of January (except the bread and crisps and BBQ’s of summer are Christmas’s Quality Street cousins). My teacher best friend is prepping to go back to school, I FOUND MY FIRST CONKER (less integral but themed all the same) and I’ve suddenly applied an unnerving amount of pressure onto myself for a clean slate and fresh start. What is it about a new school term that kicks us into gear and mounts up the pressure? I haven’t even done the pencil case run, people- I LEFT YEAR 11 YEARS AGO!





It’s funny, because between August and today, nothing has changed. I’ve eaten more bread (thanks to a holiday in France) and finally ordered our save the dates and everything is moving forward, albeit at a slow pace. I think this time of year highlights all the things we should be doing, and want to do- as well as providing that ‘FUCK, THERE’S ONLY 4 MONTHS OF THE YEAR LEFT’ feeling (or ‘last orders at the bar’ which someone kindly put on Instagram), which I try and always disguise as ‘well, at least the Bake Off is back, right?’ It feels like we need to tick off everything at once, and suddenly we’re capped at Christmas which amps up the invisible pressure to do and get done.


Obviously that’s not to say that’s a bad thing. There’s a list as long as my arm of things I’d love to achieve this month (not limited to getting fitter, launching a new project, planning our wedding which feels like it’s getting more full on as the months creep up) so joining the mental bandwagon of a clean slate can sometimes be the most positive thing we can do when things become too much. It’s easy to put all the huge tasks down as goals, but sometimes it’s ticking off the smaller things, like going for a 20 minute jog more than once a week, sending that looming email or sending some flowers to a friend that really warrant the little pats on the back. Goodness knows it’s harder than it looks to run a business/go to work/plan a wedding/move house/etc as well as being an available and good friend/daughter/granddaughter/cousin etc. We’re all just trying our best after all. So, whether or not you decide to wipe that slate clean and give it another go, remember it’s never too late for a fresh start- be it now, be it in a couple of days, weeks or months. Because* really, you can reset that term whenever you like.

x

*thought I’d end on a rebellious sentence, as when I was in primary school I was told to never start a sentence with because… et viola!

(Top: C/O wearehundredclub, Jeans: & Other Stories, Bag: House of Fraser, Shoes: Tophsop (old), Earrings: Madewell)




16 Comments

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    Ray Amaari
    September 3, 2018 at 2:05 pm

    Simple and chic.

    http://www.rayamaari.com

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    Teresa
    September 3, 2018 at 2:11 pm

    What a lovely and inspiring text!
    And omg you’re right, CHRISTMAS IS ONLY 4 MONTHS AWAY!!😱😍

    Teresa x | outlandishblog.com

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    briana
    September 3, 2018 at 3:11 pm

    I absolutely adore this t-shirt! Need it.

    briana | youngsophisticate.com

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    Natalia
    September 3, 2018 at 3:46 pm

    Same. Woke up this morning and wrote month goals, week goals and today’s to-do and it felt very much like a new start. In love with this outfit, by the way!

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    Sara
    September 3, 2018 at 4:17 pm

    Lovely t-shirt! I also thought about Autumn like a kind of new year. I am usually much more effective this season than Spring anyway.

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    Kate & Co
    September 3, 2018 at 8:14 pm

    I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post! It’s so true, the start of September does spark a feeling of the need to be organised and start a fresh. I can’t believe I’ve already seen Christmas things in shops – I am beyond excited (or is it too early to be saying that?). Lovely photographs as well, your style is impeccable 🙂

    Love, Kate x

    http://www.kate-and-co.blogspot.com

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    Alex
    September 3, 2018 at 8:45 pm

    I love the outfit ! Great shoes !
    https://thefrenchiestblog.wordpress.com

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    Julia
    September 3, 2018 at 9:19 pm

    I wish you the best of luck to accomplish all you need to do! Wedding planning must be exciting, and I am sure everything will fall into place – don’t stress out too much!

    Julia x
    http://www.juliaspeaksbeauty.blogspot.co.uk

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    Neeltje | Thoughts in Style
    September 4, 2018 at 7:05 am

    I love this outfit! Xx
    https://www.thoughtsinstyle.com

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    Flic
    September 4, 2018 at 9:57 am

    Agreed! All the fresh start of term feels – on your own terms of course 😉 xx

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    Jodie
    September 4, 2018 at 10:16 am

    The new school year definitely makes everything feel fresh and like a clean slate, I couldn’t agree with you more!

    Jodie // jodieloue.com

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    Flo la vita
    September 5, 2018 at 10:31 am

    The photos are BEAUTIFUL! xX

    https://www.flolavita.co.uk/2018/09/a-chat-with-bepbeee-personal-style.html

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    Margaux
    September 6, 2018 at 9:35 am

    Lovely outfit, good idea with the orange and white 😉

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    Bright December
    September 11, 2018 at 2:48 am

    Love the shoes!

    https://brightdecember.blogspot.com/

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    Melina Elisa
    September 14, 2018 at 12:47 am

    I’m actually in that post-summer funk, and it’s been a little tough to find that motivation. I don’t usually skip blog posts, but I skipped one this week and then published the other one hours later than I usually do. I wish I had the “last call at the bar” motivation that most people do. This was a great post, and actually motivated me to push through and continue to to the best I can. xxx

    Melina | http://www.melinaelisa.com

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    Chloe
    September 15, 2018 at 12:52 pm

    This was exactly what I needed. Thank you Liv x

    http://www.chloeharriets.com/

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